Certainly, training our little ones to "first time obedience" is tremendously helpful in producing a home that is peaceful and joyful too. I have found though, that there is an additional key thing you can do to help cut down on the frustration that babies and toddlers experience when they can not communicate their needs. Signing.
Benefits of teaching your baby to sign?
- gives children the satisfaction of communicating their wants and desires without whining.
- accelerates verbal language acquisition
- some studies have shown signing to increase IQ as well! (studies by researchers at the National Institutes of Health)
- it's great fun to communicate with your baby/toddler this way, so much earlier than they can talk!
- slow down their verbal language acquisition
- confuse or frustrate babies (as long as you make signing fun and a game to them!)
As I have scanned several books pertaining to teaching babies to sign I have been reminded of how little I have actually taught my little guys. There are so many more signs that I could teach!
Here are a few of the key signs that we do teach our little ones:
- thank you
- pottie ~Timmy has discovered that this one is especially handy when he wants to leave the church service for a few minutes! ; )
Here's Timmy, who is now two, signing "please." The sign for "please" is really supposed to use only one hand, rubbed in a circle on your chest/tummy, but Timmy's variation (when he really, really wants something) is what we like to refer to as the "two-handed please!"
Here, he is signing "thank you." So sweet.
Want a free online resource for looking up signs in ASL (American Sign Language)? Check this site out for video clips of every sign you can imagine (and then some)!
Super helpful books:
Sign, Sing and Play by Monta Z. Briant
The Everything Baby Sign Language Book by Teresa R. Simpson (this one includes a DVD demonstrating all of the signs that are presented in the book. My older children enjoyed seeing the signs preformed and did a better job of imitating them for Timmy from the DVD than from simply reading the book.
Signing is a relatively small time investment that I have made with my children. I have never regretted it!